Milan’s eyes are so interesting to watch work. As I said before, the right one is dominant and the left one is usually crossed, but there are times when the left one seems to take over and the right one will cross. Occasionally they both cross. This usually happens when he is looking at something up close. You can see all the different eye positions in the “Apple of My Eye” video below. He sometimes gives his head a good shake while concentrating on something, and we imagine it is to “re-set” his eyes because he is seeing double.
It’s funny, we don’t really notice his googly eyes anymore. It will probably be strange to see them straight once they are corrected! It will be a very minor outpatient surgery, and perhaps he will need to wear glasses, but maybe not. We also may have to patch his stronger eye at times to help develop the weaker eye, but we won’t really know until we get him to a specialist. Strabismus has many variations and many different options for treatment.
We went shopping for some summer clothes for Milan because most of what we brought is either too big or too warm. He is pretty small – he wears a size 12 months, yet he needs a size 5.5 shoe. If his feet are the same kind of indication as puppy feet are, then we will have ourselves a tall boy. The orphanage doctor thinks so. We found that what other parents have said about Kazakh kid fashion is true – it is pretty darn hideous. We settled for blue camouflage shorts and found some standard blue and white t-shirts, even though our boy would look good in a paper sack.
Milan is getting more active and gregarious during our visits. He doesn’t seem to want to waste a moment of fun time, and his giggles are music to our ears. He grabs our fingers and takes us all around the playroom. Our walks outside are such a discovery time for him. He saw his first kitty cat today. He does get pretty tired towards the end of our visits, and yesterday he nearly fell asleep in my arms as I hummed to him. He popped that thumb in his mouth, and just as his eyes were getting heavy the door flew open and a caretaker came in to take him away. I never realized how quickly 2 hours can pass. He cried and reached out for us with both arms as she walked out of the room with him. It was the second time he has reacted like this. It’s so hard on all of us, and only getting harder.
Yesterday we started feeling a little homesick. Last night we finally dug into our video stash for the first time. We watched back-to-back episodes of one of our all-time favorites, Scrubs, and laughed hysterically. It helped a little. There is nothing stranger than watching Kazakh television. One minute it’s Paula Abdul’s Opposites Attract music video, the next it’s a B horror flick in Russian, and the next it’s Malcolm in the Middle with Russian overdubs. We’ve seen some freaky fashion shows, random babes and rap music videos sprinkled in for good measure.
We went to the supermarket and among our very safe purchases, like pasta and fruit juice, we included a bottle of camel’s milk, which is very common here. Frank shook it up before he opened it and it kept fizzing up like a soda, so we haven’t tried it yet. We will report on it next time. We ate lunch today at a Kazakh restaurant. It was delicious and so flavorful. We had the traditional fare of "Five Fingers" which is a lot like pot roast, but with big, flat noodles added.
Here are lots more photos and videos below. We are still very happy, even though we miss our home and our loved ones. Our sweet Milo makes it all worth it! Have we told you lately that we are head over heels??? Oh yes, only about a hundred times. Sorry, but I guess that makes us parents, right?
Da-Svee-Dahn-Yeh! (Goodbye!)
19 comments:
What kissable cheeks and button nose!!!
Wonderful photos....especially as a family. The videos were fun to see too!
It's great to hear how he enjoys his time with you, laughing and having fun. It would tug at my heart too to hear him cry and see him reach for us as he has to leave!
It'll be interesting to see Kazakh TV but we are bringing many DVD's and CD's too!
I like your safe grocery purchases...you two are brave with the camel's milk. Can't wait to hear what you say about that!
Take care,
Eileen
ok, ya'll are way brave with the camel milk. I remember reading on someone's blog that they tried it and it was TRES DISGUSTING! But, hey, you may dig it. :)
oh my goodness-I love your son too! what a sweet darling little laught. He is clearly adorable and ya'll just look so happy! It's really hear warming to read your blog. I LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!
and, isn't it true, when you meet someone and get to know them, you don't really see their outward appearance anymore. You see their inner beauty most and it just shines thru them and makes them even more beautiful.
Milan is precious even with his strambosis eye, but i bet it would give him headaches when he's older and is learning to read, so i'm glad it's an "easy fix"
Ya'll are just GLOWING and he is just SO SUPER CUTE I can barely stand it.
It was wild watching him eat with that mongo spoon.
It was also weird hearing Russian spoken. :)
Happy Memorial day to you.
We are boating all weekend.
Cute father and son moment here-Sean and Joe are fishing and Sean has a bite.Joe is helping him reel it in...and they are working hard. Big catch was a huge clump of seaweed. :) I got some cute pics.
Joe is also teaching SEan to drive the boat. It was really choppy out and Sean did great. Heck, MOM doesn't even drive the boat.
You have so many wonderful things to look foward to. I am so happy for your family!!!
:)
Frank and Regina,
Your little Milo has such a big personality and seems so sweet natured it really fills our hearts. In the videos he looks so taken with his folks, we love it. Curious about the camel's milk, but we have heard it is the consistency of goat's milk...we'll wait for confirmation on that. Enjoy your time. We are loving the posts.
Heidi and Terry Biglin
I love these updates! Regina, you look so pretty all the time -- and fashionable! I looked like a wreck the whole time we were in China. Milan is adorable - LOVE the green jumpsuit. Very Devo, or Beastie Boys, with a toddler twist. I sent you an email with our good news - finally a referral! 7 months baby girl, Akeyla Michelle, we hope to pick her up in August! isn't it grand, Finding our families in all corners of the world? xo, Cindy Matt and Astrid, and coming soon: Akeyla!
What a cute personality he has. His giggle is infectious!
A good ophthalmologist will have that eye fixed in no time. It will be fun to see how he acts when he sees things different!
He's a keeper!!!
Ahhhhh! ;-) It feels so satisfying to FINALLY see a full frontal photo of Milan with the family. He truly is a beautiful boy! Keep more coming of all of him! He's perfect just the way he is!
Steph
What a cute and fun little boy you have there! I can see why you are head over heels. The pictures and videos are charming.
Good luck with the camel milk. ;)
What a beautiful family :) Your smiles reach all the way back home.
Camel's milk: the fermentation made it fizz. Lets just say that it wasn't our favorite.
Blessings,
Julie
We are still just crazy happy for you! Milo definitely fits in the picture like he's always been a part of your lives.
Abi keeps asking when you are going to be back so she can meet Milo and Tillie says "that's a boy".
Take care over there!! We're rootin' for you all the way!!
Love, the Coes
The video of your family and Bayana brought tears to my eyes, I truly miss her. Bayana is just a natural with the families and the babies! :)
I can't believe that Milo is wearing 12 months clothes, he is just a little peanut! :)
The video of Milo hiding from Frank was awesome! I bet he has never laughed like that in his little life; what a blessing you all are for each other! :)
Did you photo shop your second family photo? That is crazy!
Sorry to hear that you are getting a wee bit homesick. The time in Kaz truly does make you appreciate home a bit more doesn't it. :)
Christy
What a beautiful boy! I can't even imagine your joy right now. I can't wait to meet him in person!
Congratulations to the proud mommy and daddy! You all have just been given a very special gift.
Love, Dawn
Happy Memorial Day you guys! Thank you for the pics and the videos. He is so darn cute! I loved the 'under the table' video. I was laughing along with Milo.
Russian TV is interesting. You just never know what is going to show up next, and what the rating is. I remember one time we were eating breakfast at the hotel where they had a huge flat panel TV set up. All of a sudden one of those B horror flicks came on with all the blood and gore. Um... during breakfast?! They were kind enough to change the chanel. :-)
You guys continue to look fantastic day after day. I am so happy for you all.
What gorgeous lashes - why is it that the boys always seem to get them ; ) !!
I love how in love with Milan you guys are and how much you are enjoying your time in Kaz. I wish every adoptive parent had the same wonderful, positive attitude!
Thanks for letting us follow along.
Owen's mom
What a lovely family! The love you have for Milo is obvious. Can't wait to meet him! Happy Memorial Day~
OUR NEW NEPHEW! He is perrrrrfect! Hi, Milo, boy with the angel's eyes! We have played and replayed the videos a billion times and still can't believe that precious laughing boy is part of our family! Frank, Regina and Milo, your love radiates through the computer screen and we can't begin to put to words the joy and excitement that's reverberating here back home. You three ARE the "buzz"! And Tula is freeeeaking....cried when she saw Milo, remembering similiar bonding days with us. She couldn't speak but kept uttering "Aaaah" with each photo and vid through filled eyes. What moments in time these are! We can't wait for your return!! "To have a child is a choice from God...to adopt a child is a God-given choice".
Love across the ocean,
Rip, Michelle, Lauren, Allison, Tula and Peter
He is a gorgeous child and obviously is becoming sooooo attached to you. That is happy news! Trudi
I want to pinch those adorable little cheeks. Love the videos. He is having a ball with the two of you. Glad he is reaching out for you when you leave. It is all good even though it is hard. Tricia
Love to see the pictures of Milan and the video. He is so adorable! I think you said you were interested in him from seeing pictures of him on another blog? I can't blame you for wanting him. I'm happy he is yours. Some things are meant to be and I truly believe you end up with the child that is meant to be yours.
Adorable little boy. Thanks for sharing the videos, you can really see his sweet personality in them.
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