Friday, May 23, 2008

The Time of Our Lives

Privyet! (Hi!) Kak de la? (How are you?) Ochen hirasho, spaseeba. (Very well, thanks.)

We are still rocking and rolling from halfway around the world. It’s getting hot, so thankfully we have a kick-butt air conditioner in our apartment! We needed an extension cord for it, and purchasing one was a quest. We were taken to three different hardware/houseware stores to find one that was not made in China. Apparently they do not trust Chinese-made products here, as the quality is even less than what is allowed into the US. They were hoping to find us a Russian-made cord, but we had to settle for a Turkish one. Who'da thunk? So far so good. The stores we went to were very interesting. Such a mish-mash of products and lack of visual merchandising.

Answers to a few of your questions:

Milan is pronounced just like the Italian city (since he will probably be a famous shoe designer to make up for the trauma of having to wear his big orange clown shoes.) It’s pronounced as a cross between Me-Lahn and Ma-Lahn, with the accent is on the Lahn.

Yes, we did take the “No Jet Lag” pills during our travel, but not as often as the directions suggested. They seemed to help, but we did hit a wall at the worst possible time – about 10 minutes before meeting the children!

We are both behind the camera in our photos. In the photos with both of us in them, those are taken by one of our translators, either Aina or Bayanna (pronounced Bye-Ah-Nah.) Bayanna is also who you see in the video below. They are both great! In fact, the whole team here is great and we feel very comfortable with them. We are pretty well taken care of.

The name of the wi-fi coffee shop is Black and Brown. It's near the Business Center (where they have great pizza!) The staff is very friendly here. We gave them one of our band’s CD’s. They start playing it whenever we come in. ;-)

A Few Tips

Photos: Because internet access in Kaz is mostly dial-up most families have some degree of trouble uploading photos because of the file size. If you don’t have Photoshop to resize your photos for web, there is an awesome, quick, free software program that will help you resize your photos easily to a much more manageable size that won’t take nearly as long. (It saves them as a new file so you don’t lose the original.) It’s called PixRESIZER and you can download it here: http://bluefive.pair.com/pixresizer.htm

Language: We are still loving our Pimsleur CDs (we got halfway through the Russain II series), but also found a GREAT web site to supplement our Russian lessons: http://www.mangolanguages.com/
You can do a bunch of them for free and they are so user-friendly.

Multi-Use: We packed some puppy training pads to use as disposable changing pads, as well as a mattress pad to guard against leaks once Milan is in our custody (which won’t be until our second trip now.) I like them tons better than the disposable changing pads, and they’re less expensive.

Vitamin Drops: These are a good way to sneak in a little extra nutrition. We put some in a sippy cup of juice we bring him every day. We are starting slowly, so we don’t shock his system. We are using Enfamil Tri-Vi-Sol vitamin drops without iron. We also have a more vitamin-rich Poly-Vi-Sol formula, and a Poly-Vi-Sol formula with Iron. The iron formula will have to wait until we get him home because it can clog up his system.

Dust Control: Aqtobe is a very dusty city. If you bring screens for your windows it may not be enough to keep the dust out of your apartment. Bring a cheap sheer curtain to tape to the window instead. (Luckily we have an air conditioner and our street isn’t as dusty as some, so we have not had to do this, but I know of some families for whom this was a big problem.)

Ring: I purchased an inexpensive “stand in” wedding band and left my real wedding rings at home in our safe. Just in case... But we feel safe here.


We are having the time of our lives. Milan is the most amazing, kindhearted, good natured little boy. He is such a delight to be around and we feel like the luckiest people in the world. We have never felt more alive, and our hearts are singing.

There is so so so much to share, but not as much time to write as I thought we'd have. We will share lots more soon, but for now here are some more photos and videos of our precious few moments here. Much love to everyone!













VIDEOS:


Beach Ball Giggles



Gonna Git Choo



Runnin' and Huggin'

20 comments:

Patrick & Eileen said...

Have I told you lately that you guys are awesome & ROCK??? Ya do :)

Thanks for all the great tips and answers to questions!! We have Vista on our laptop and have no idea if we'll encounter trouble with it in Kaz? But it was a great heads up. Love your PixRESIZER idea - we'll have to do that. Are you two a computer wiz? Where do you find all these things?

Now.....you guys always managed to make me cry in the morning with your photos/videos. Thanks for sharing as much as you do. We love it!!

Hugs,
Eileen

Jennifer said...

Wow, those videos are priceless! They all are so great! Listening to him laugh, watching that cute little boy walk, and best of all- giving such wonderful hugs. Thank you SOOOO much for taking the time to upload those vids.

So how do you not spend all your time just kissing up those adorable cheeks and mouth?! :-)

Amy said...

Great videos!!!! What a character he is!!! Don't you just love the sound of that baby belly laugh? You guys look like you are having such a great time!!! Milo too!!!

See now you too can espouse the wonderfulness of adopting an "older" child .... he is practically ready to start collection social security isn't he?

Enjoy the time there and the fresh and wonderful food!!! The time will fly by like the wind!!!

Susan said...

oh my goodness-what a sweetie pie!!! It's so obvious how in love everyone is.
I am so happy you are having such a wonderful positive experience. :)

Thanks for the tips-it will be helpful if we're ever lucky enough to go. :)

He is really really really sweet and what a love bug .I LOVE this age in children-they're so much fun!!! Very heartwarming...:)

Thad and Ann said...

awwww, the last video is so precious!! The other 2 are great, love seeing his grin & hearing him laugh. :) You guys are awesome parents already, LOL at the last picture of Frank hanging on to Milo. :) I'm glad everything is going well.

Sandi said...

Regina and Frank,
I love waking up to your posts, the happiness and love that you guys have just makes me smile. You can see the love through your pictures and videos. I love his laugh, so cute.

Glad to see your still rolling and enjoying your time.

Sandi

Amy said...

More tears of joy for my lovely friends. You guys are pros already at this parenting thing and the bonding process is obviously working like a charm. Thank you both for sharing such an intimate experience so first hand. It is beautiful to see! Love and miss you! Enjoy the rest of your time with Milan.

Anonymous said...

Milan is a beautiful child. The way he hugs you guys just makes my heart melt into mush.

Alysa said...

Adorable as always! Great videos. All 3 of you are just glowing.

Thanks for the tips -- they'll come in handy.

Angela said...

Oh my goodness! How sweet is the last video?! So glad that you have found your guy!

Karla said...

I LOVE MY NEPHEW!!! I cannot wait to hold him and squeeze him and love him in person! Thanks for sharing all of this. You guys are so fortunate, and Milan is, too. This is wonderful news! Be safe. Hugs and kisses!

Kaz Blog Reader said...

There's nothing like a baby laughing!!! He is so precious and such a sweet boy!

Thanks for sharing your videos.
Holly and Dean

Chrissy and Russell said...

Holy moly, that little kiddo is such a cutie! You guys look radiantly happy. Thanks so much for continuing to post suggestions and ideas re: travel.

Catalina said...

adorable pics and video, you are a wonderful, happy family and I love to see your shinny eyes. Milan matches very well your family. My thoughts are with you, not sure how often i will be able to post, but do know that i will be thinking of you.

cindy said...

Your son is amazing!!! Your family is so beautiful! I am so happy for you. Cindy

Stephanie and Gary said...

I'm speechless!! Even my husband, who's still lagging a bit behind me, was impressed with photos of Frank and Milan. He looked at the pics and video and simply said "What a lucky little boy." And what a lucky mom and dad!

Wonderful moments!
Steph

Happy said...

LOVE LOVE LOVE the pictures of your cutie. He's got the most infectious smile. And how great that he's a hugger. A friend of mine had that eye problem, and it was pretty simple to fix. And it's certainly something that shouldn't come between you and your son. The thing is that when we give birth, our children do not always turn out perfectly, but we keep them anyway. Milan is no different--he's a keeper. I'm so happy for all of you, and I can't wait to see the little guy. He even looks like a Ruopoli kid. :) Susan, Gramma of two Ruopoli's

Kaz Blog Reader said...

You two have the love endorphins going on. How exciting! Enjoy every minute of it :) Love the videos and pictures. You can see the love and happiness that you are feeling. Tricia

Kaz Blog Reader said...

I am officially teary over the videos. They bring Milan to life and he is such a charming, handsome little boy. I love seeing him with you. You are bonding so well and the love between you is palpable. It is beautiful, beautiful. Thank you. Trudi

Kelly and Sne said...

Milo is such a cute lil' bugger. It does look like all three of you are having a great time together!

It's funny that you are having a heat wave while we are freezing here as it dropped into the 60s over the weekend. While we don't have a/c, we have a nice cross-breeze and didn't get too warm inside last week when it was 90 so I'm hoping that we won't suffer too much. Lucky you having access to a high speed internet. In fact, I may not be able to access your blog as often as I'd like because it takes so much time to load all of those photos. And I'm disappointed that we'll have to wait until we get home to see the video of Milo.

Anyway, keep on having fun! Hopefully you have more toys to play with there than we do. While we certainly could interact with our boy for the entire day and night - not just the 4 hour visits - we are all getting a little sick of the toy selection in the Baby Room. It really is testing our parenting skills trying to make up game and game... Fortunately, there is lots of hugging and snuggling to catch up on too! Enjoy!